He Stayed Silent Through Everything — But Now Kristin Cabot’s Husband Says She’s Always Been Drawn to Men With Power

Kristin Cabot, Chief of HR at Astronomer, was caught in a moment of intimacy during a Coldplay concert in Boston with the company's CEO Andy Byron

He didn’t want to speak.
Not to the press.
Not to his board.
Not to the people asking if he was okay.

But then she smiled on the jumbotron.

And now — he’s done staying quiet.

“This Wasn’t the First. This Was the Last.”

Andrew Cabot, CEO of Privateer Rum, had been dealing with whispers for years.
He saw the glances at fundraisers.
He overheard the questions at investor dinners.
He watched, more times than he’ll admit, as his wife moved through rooms like she already knew who mattered and who didn’t.

And now, with the world replaying that moment — Kristin Cabot, in her CEO’s arms at a Coldplay concert — Andrew Cabot has had enough.

“People are acting like this was an accident. Like it was heat-of-the-moment.
But I’ve seen this pattern. I’ve lived with it. This was just the first time someone else caught it.”

DailyMail.com can confirm that Cabot (pictured) in fact is currently married

The Pattern He’s Now Willing to Name

For the first time since the footage went viral, Cabot has spoken publicly.

Not with rage. Not with scandal.
But with precision.

“Kristin has a type. It’s not about looks. It’s not about age. It’s about access.
I’ve watched her circle rooms until she found the person with the most influence. Then she’d start over.”

And when asked how long he’s known?

“Too long. But this time, she didn’t just walk out on a marriage.
She walked into a camera lens she couldn’t control.”

“She Was Drawn to Power Like It Was Oxygen.”

Friends of Andrew say he was loyal to a fault.
That he believed “phases” could be weathered.
That he wanted the marriage to work, even after the stories, the shifts, the moments when Kristin became someone else around certain men.

He supported her role at Privateer.
Gave her an advisory seat.
Trusted her judgment in people.
Until one of those people turned out to be Andy Byron.

The CEO of a billion-dollar AI firm.
Her new boss.
And, apparently, her next move.

Massachusetts property documents dated in January confirmed that Cabot is currently married to Andrew Cabot, the chief executive of Privateer Rum, a Massachusetts-based booze maker. Pictured: Kristin Cabot pictured with her husband, Andrew Cabot, and his two kids

The Coldplay Clip That Ended Everything

At first, Andrew didn’t watch it.

He heard about it secondhand.
From someone in marketing.
Someone who asked if he was “doing okay.”

Then he saw it.
Her hands wrapped around Byron’s.
His arms tight across her chest.
The smile that wasn’t embarrassed — just familiar.

He didn’t watch it twice.

Kristin even posed with his son Henry, 30, in the snaps, and was seen wearing a wedding ring at the event - which was missing during her cozy Coldplay date with Byron

The List No One Has Seen… Yet

Sources close to Andrew say he’s now compiling something else: a list.

Of names.
Of dates.
Of text threads and photos and subtle corrections she once made about “just colleagues.”

“I’ve kept quiet for years. I’ve stayed out of her way.
But the truth is, she’s been writing this story long before Coldplay ever got involved.”

And according to one insider, the list doesn’t just include Andy Byron.
It includes at least two senior execs from her last company.
And one board member at a private equity firm Kristin once described as “too boring to be dangerous.”

Now?
It’s not boring anymore.

Privateer Rum¿s website lists Andrew Cabot (pictured) as its CEO and COO of the company, and public documents show that he has been married at least twice before, in 1993 and 2014

Property Records Don’t Lie

Though Kristin no longer uses Andrew’s name online, the paperwork hasn’t caught up.

A $2.2 million home purchased jointly in February
A $1.05 million home sold under both their names just months prior
Shared mortgages
Shared titles
Shared assets now being pulled apart one painful file at a time

“She posed with my son,” Andrew says quietly.

“Wore her ring. Smiled at my daughter’s birthday.
And somehow, none of that meant enough to stop her from holding someone else in front of a stadium full of strangers.”

The Kids Are Watching Too

Andrew Cabot’s first wife, Maud, posted photos last year of Kristin smiling at a family party — hand-in-hand with Andrew’s adult son, Henry.

Now, that image looks like a lie.

Henry has since deleted the post.

And sources say Kristin hasn’t reached out to the kids since the video went viral.

“She burned a family. Not just a marriage.
And she hasn’t looked back.”

Kristin¿s now-deleted LinkedIn account showed that she has served as an ¿advisory board member¿ at Privateer Rum since September 2020. Pictured: Andrew Cabot (center) at a ribbon cutting celebrating Privateer Rum joining the Greater Newburyport Chamber of Commerce

No One’s Laughing Anymore

The Coldplay moment started as a joke.
Chris Martin’s comment about “an affair or just being shy” went viral.

But now?
With two CEO marriages collapsing,
an internal corporate investigation underway,
and boardrooms on both coasts asking hard questions — the laughter has stopped.

And Andrew?

He’s done laughing too.

“They thought I wouldn’t say anything.
But they forgot one thing — I know where the bodies are buried.
And I’m not the one who should be afraid of what comes next.”

Final Thought

Kristin Cabot didn’t fall into a mistake.
She walked into a pattern she’s repeated for years — until one Coldplay lyric made it public.

She’s lost her marriage.
Her reputation.
Her seat at the company her husband built.

But the biggest thing she lost?

Control.

And Andrew Cabot — the man she thought would stay silent again —
is finally ready to speak.